2.3 Baptism – scripturally understood – comes
at the point of believing (for oneself or, in the case of Christian
Family Baptism, as a Christian household).
2.4 Again, in accordance with Matthew 28: 19-20,
the PCC recognises the necessity of baptism following profession of
faith (rather than preceding it).
2.5 In the case of the baptism of babies and very
young children, this requires the support of at least one believing
parent. The PCC concurs
with the view of wider world-wide Anglicanism as expressed in the
so-called “Toronto Statement” – Walk in Newness of Life:
“Parents who have not participated actively in the
eucharistic fellowship should be integrated into the worshipping
community prior to the baptism of their children. Efforts to encourage a family’s active participation in the
community after the child’s baptism are predictably unsuccessful
where a parent has not already been integrated.”
2.6 That said, the PCC promotes the creative and
sensitive use of the Service of Thanksgiving for the Gift of a
Child in Common Worship. We
will aim to be as flexible as a is reasonably possible to the needs
and requests of the family in offering this rite. This we see as an
appropriate first step into the stage of “Belonging” (in however
vague a sense) to the Church. The practice outlined below reflects this.
3. OUR
PRACTICE IN RESPECT OF APPLICATIONS FOR CHRISTIAN FAMILY BAPTISM FROM
NON-CHURCH-ATTENDING ENQUIRERS
3.1 Initial enquiries may come through the parish
office, by telephone or by personal contact.
A leaflet and application for Thanksgiving for the Gift of a Child [TGC]
should be given or sent to the enquirer.
3.2 It may be that enquirers want to discuss this
before submitting an application.
If so, one of the clergy or a lay member of the Baptism
Team (lay visitor) should visit or meet with the family.
3.3 On
receipt of an application, a lay visitor (ideally) or a clergy member
will visit to arrange a date for a TGC.
The lay visitor’s small
group should be involved in prayer for,
and befriending of the family.
3.4 By agreement with the Vicar, a TGC may be
held in a Sunday morning service, on a Sunday afternoon in Church, in
the family home (at a mutually agreed time), or in another suitable
venue on the occasion of a gathering of the family and friends (eg. a
hotel). It will
usually be conducted by one of the clergy, but when deemed appropriate
a Reader might officiate. Members
of the small group that has been praying for the family should be
encouraged to attend.
3.5 If, subsequent to the TGC rite, the family
express an interest in proceeding
to Christian Family Baptism, those who have had previous contact
should visit to (a) invite the family to begin attending church (if
they have not already done so), and (b) to attend a pre-Alpha course (6-7 weeks duration).
The relevant small group should continue prayer support, care
for the family in all kinds of informal ways, and take care to invite
them to any social occasions the group runs.
3.6 Pre-Alpha
courses will be run according to demand (ideally lay led). The aim here is to present the Gospel in as accessible a way
as possible. At its
conclusion the family choose whether to proceed with baptism, or
defer. One of the clergy will normally conclude the course with an
evening on Baptism.
3.7 For a Baptism to proceed the requirements of Canon
B23 must be observed. That
is that for each infant to be baptised there should be three
communicant godparents.
3.8 Baptisms
will take place in a morning service (either an all-age service or
Morning Worship, though preferably not Holy Communion).
3.9 Following Baptism, it is hoped that families
will be worshipping. This
should be encouraged. Attendance
at an Alpha Course will be
encouraged with a view to parents being confirmed (if they have not
already been so).
3.10 It is not our policy to baptise the children of families
resident outside of our parish – except in the case of those who
regularly worship, and whose names are on our electoral roll.
4. OUR
PRACTICE IN RESPECT OF APPLICATIONS FOR CHRISTIAN FAMILY BAPTISM FROM
CHURCH MEMBERS
4.1 The choice of whether to bring young children
either to Christian Family Baptism (CFB) or Thanksgiving for the Gift
of a Child (TGC) (sometimes called “Dedication”) is for the
parents in consultation with the Vicar.
4.2 Parents choosing CFB, might consider first
coming for TGI, the reason for this being that it promotes a sense of
unity across the congregation and parish – everyone beginning, as it
were, from a common starting point.
This could have a supportive impact upon the policy outlined
(so far) above.
4.3 Preparation should be agreed with the Vicar
and be appropriate to the family concerned.
4.4 Baptisms will normally take place in a main
morning service.
5. OUR
PRACTICE IN RESPECT OF OLDER CHILDREN
5.1 By “older children” we mean those able to
understand what it means to be a disciple of Jesus (in ways
appropriate to their age) and able to make the promises in the Baptism
service for themselves.
5.2 Preparation for primary age children should
make use of the material in When a Child asks to be Baptised [or a
suitable alternative]. Ideally,
this should be done by the parents.
However, there might be circumstances in which another adult
might be appropriate (eg a godparent).
The clergy will be available for support, and will meet with
the child(ren) and parents prior to baptism.
5.3 Preparation for teenagers should be conducted
by the Youth Worker (involving others) in consultation with parents,
and with clergy in overall support and supervision.
It is probably best for this to be done in a group (using a
course like Youth Alpha).
This might be done in conjunction with Confirmation preparation
for those teenagers baptised in infancy or early years.
5.4 Each child or teenage candidate should have at
least one “sponsor” who is a practising Christian.
5.5 Teenagers should normally be ready to be
confirmed as well a baptised.
5.6 The mode of Baptism will normally be by
immersion in a main service. Where
this takes place with Confirmation, the Bishop may wish to be the
baptising minister.
5.7 In the case of child or teenage candidates
whose parents do not worship with us, we would only baptise with their
consent and good will.
6. OUR
PRACTICE IN RESPECT OF ADULT CANDIDATES
6.1 Candidates for “adult” baptism should be
able to articulate their personal faith in Jesus Christ for salvation,
a relationship with God as Father, and an experience the Holy Spirit.
6.2 Clergy (or others) will be available to
provide preparation. New
Christians should have completed Alpha (or something similar).
6.3 Candidates should choose at least one “sponsor”.
6.4 The mode will be immersion at the main
service, or a specially arranged service.
7. OUR
PRACTICE IN RESPECT OF PERSONS ALREADY BAPTISED REQUESTING “RE-BAPTISM”
7.1 Theologically (in Anglican terms), there is
only one Baptism whether administered in infancy or later years.
7.2 That said, we recognise that there is
sometimes a real pastoral issue here to which we have responsibility
to minister. People
baptised very young, sometimes feel that their baptism (which they can’t
remember) is lacking, in some sense.
7.3 There are two options.
(a) For some, the (purely verbal) renewal of baptismal vows
(either at a Baptism or Confirmation service) will suffice.
(b) Others may
sense the need for something more than this; in such cases we offer a
renewal of baptismal vows with immersion in water.
7.4 Where this latter option is chosen it is
administered on the understanding that it is an experiential renewal
of an existing and valid baptism, for pastoral purposes.
As such, it makes up for a perceived lack – ie
a personal profession of faith and the experience of immersion
in water.
